I was in Redcliffs, I bused through town with my 2-month old and 3 year old, to have lunch with nana and granddad, my 3 year old was not at preschool that day, we were all in the same place, my dad was killed, after the earthquake, he passed away in front of me, in my arms, he looked at me with so much love in the face of death, and i will not look at life ever the same.